Discuss with a friend? (2024)

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Being friends does not mean that you will never argue.Only can be a sign of a healthy relationship, especially if it is done respectfully.

It is important to fight and put together according to an argument.

How to fight honestly

• Do not make accusations.Sig, "I felt 'x' when 'y' happened, 'instead of' I cannot believe you did it against me '.
• Never call your friend's names or use physical threats or violence.
• Do not send your argument to other people.
• Stay calm.If you find out that you are upset, take time -out.
• Don't get old nag.Sometimes the conflict with which you are dealing with now, not one that you had six months ago.

Compound

Try not to get angry for long.

1. Excuse.
2. Try to explain where you came from.
3. Make plans to see each other quickly.
4. Do something nice and try to put the argument aside.
5. If there is more to say, you meet somewhere neutral (such as a coffee shop) and try to talk about it calmly.
6. Try to forgive and continue.
7. Accept not to agree.

Jealousy

Jealousy is a feeling that is usually experienced when you compare yourself with someone else, or something that someone else has.

Maybe you feel jealous of your friend:

• Datingforhold
• Popularity
• Numbers
• family
• Athletic ability or other talents
• clothes
• physical appearance

Acting of jealousy

It is quite common for friends to be jealous of each other and it is not always clear when someone is jealous.

• Try not to compare yourself with others.Jealousy is often a consequence of not having good enough.
• Focus on what you have, not what you don't do.Concentration of your strengths and the things that you are grateful for can help you feel happier with yourself.
• Talk about your feelings with someone you trust.They may point to some of the strengths that you do not see in yourself, which can help your perspective change.
• Spend time with people who help you feel good about yourself.To hang around with friends and family who appreciate and accept you for who you are, you can increase your self -confidence.

If you need someone to talk about your jealous, you can call a children's aid for telephone adviser from 1-800-668-6868 or chat with us online.

Feeling excluded in a friendship

Sometimes friends can feel unhappy in a friendship.This can be done for various reasons, but jealous is an important part of having healthy friendships.

Dealing your feelings

If you are worried that you lose a good friend or that someone or something comes between you, you can feel:

• jealous
• hurt
• boos
• sad
• only
• regrettable
• Worried

These feelings can be very strong and they can adversely affect your life.

• Talk about it:Consider sharing how you are.It is important that you do not blame your friend for how you feel.
• Change your expectations:If you tend to have one or two good friends at the same time, it is more likely that you are jealous of things that can come between you.The needs.For example, if you need, if you need your friend to be fun and caring, think of whom you can contact otherwise if they are not available.
• Press your feelings in healthy ways:Try to prevent you from pronouncing your feelings by sulking friendship or ending threats.Try not to be guilty or give them the silent treatment.
• Work with your self -confidence:If you are not at ease with yourself, you can feel very easily betrayed, although there is no damage, for example.yourself and be nice to yourself about the things you don't like.
• Get new friends:This will feel your focus away from your omitted.To another.

If you want more support to feel excluded, you can call a children's aid for telephone adviser from 1-800-668-6868 or chat with us online.

End of a friendship

If you have decided that a friendship just doesn't work, you can feel the urge to end it in a formal or dramatic way.

Terminating a friendship is your decision, but it is important to really think about it.

• You may think ...They will be out of my life forever!
  • But by other thought ...If your friend goes to the same school or lives in your area, it might not be that easy.
• You may think ...I surround myself with real friends!
  • But by other thought ...If you and your friend share other friends, things can be complicated.friction.
• You may think ...Our friendship was assessed from the start.
  • But by other thought ...Once you have had a fall, it is difficult to look beyond your differences..

Alternatives of the division

A collapse is not the only way to create some room for yourself.It goes back from the person without removing them from your life, helps you to stay completely friendly while you respect your desire to change things.

Start small: don't call or text your friend as often as you do before.To hang around in groups, so it's not just your two.

Separate you to label

If you have thought through it and feel that a formal collapse is needed, remember these doses and not in mind:

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• Talk to the person one on one.
• Be respectful for it.
• Prepare yourself.In friend can be angry, feelings or have hurt.
• Stay calm.Try not to be drawn in an argument.

DONSIND not

• Don't break on social media or in another public way that will probably make the person feel pain and humiliated.
• Let anyone else transfer the message to you.
• Do not indicate that all your friend they have missed or increases in the past.
• Not gossip about the person or tell others about their shortcomings.
• Do not press mutual friends to select pages.

After the collapse

A broken friendship can be really difficult, even if you know it was good to stop.

After separating with a friend, it is important that you:

• Take care of yourself:Finishing a friendship can be stressful, so try to eat healthily, get enough sleep and exercise.
• Be positive:It can help you to think about the space you have just made in your life - space for other friends to come in!
• Be strong:Don't doubt you.
• Find new friends:Start by sitting somewhere else for lunch.Participation in a team or club where you can meet new people.