Marriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (2024)

Wedding ceremony with Abigail

In single player mode,Weddingcan only do with onevillagerwho is marked as 'single' on the Social tab.For marriages between players in a multiplayer game, seeMultiplayerInWedding ring.

Earn 10 hearts before proposingfriendshipwith your intended partner, which requires you to give him/her onebouquet(at 8 hearts of friendship). You also need to repair the bridge east of itElliott's house (costs 300boom) Inupgradeoffarmat least once.

One from the libraryLost books, titled “Marriage Guide for Farmers,” also explains the process.

"Before you ask someone to marry you, date him or her for a while (Ask someone to date you)bouquetvanPierre's).

When you're ready to pop the big question, give them a 'The mermaid pendant'. Everyone knows what it means when you introduce them to one of them.

It is said that on stormy days the spirit of aold sailorappears in Stardew Valley, wearing just such a pendant.

After the wedding ceremony, your partner will move in with you. Don't forget to treat your partner well... They still love gifts even after marriage!

(Paid for by Pierre)”
— Marriage counseling for farmers

Contents

  • 1 Marriage candidates
    • 1.1 Bachelors
    • 1.2 Shipping
  • 2 Romantic
    • 2.1 Data
    • 2.2 Resolution
    • 2.3 Making a marriage proposal
    • 2.4 The wedding
  • 3 Married life
    • 3.1 Duties of the Spouse
    • 3.2 Star Drop
    • 3.3 Spouses' rooms
    • 3.4 Spouse outside the region
    • 3.5 Exhaustion
    • 3.6 Messy house
    • 3.7 Jealousy
  • 4 children
  • 5 Divorce
  • 6 mistakes
  • 7 References
  • 8 History

Marriage candidates

Singles

  • Alex

  • Elliott

  • Harvey

  • Sam

  • Sebastian

  • Shane

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Romantic

Romance can't begin until you reach the 8thhardwith a potential partner (where the friendship level freezes for suitors).

Data

The morning after you reach 8 hearts for the first time with a suitor,Pierrewill send you a message to notify youbouquet(Marriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (14)200 gropPierre's shop):

“It seems like you're starting to get close to some of the townspeople. If you want to show someone that you are romantically interested, you should give him or her one of my beautiful bouquets. I'm selling them now, at a very reasonable price! If you ever want to start a family, this is the first step!”
– Pierre

Giving the bouquet unlocks the friendship level with the bachelor or bachelorette, allowing the friendship to develop further. Once they accept the bouquet, their Social tab status will also change to 'boyfriend' or 'boyfriend'. The bouquet can be given to multiple candidates, regardless of gender. There is nofriendshippunishment for giving bouquets to dating rivals, even if there are anyGroup heart eventthat can make all the girls/friends pat you on the back for a week.

To finish

To find a suitor aWithered bouquetends the relationship. That of the suitorfriendshipThe level immediately drops to 5 hearts when you receive one.

Suggests a marriage

The day after reaching 10friendshiphearts with a suitor, you will receive a letter fromMajor Lewis:

“I'm going to give you this advice because I like you and I want you to stay in Pelican Town. If there ever comes a day when you want to ask for someone's hand in marriage, you will have to shake his or her hand. A 'The mermaid pendant'. Don't worry, everyone in Pelican Town understands the meaning of the amulet. It is an old tradition in this region. Good luck!"
-Lewis

Present one to get engagedThe mermaid pendantto your intended partner. You have to buy itMarriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (15)5.000 grvanOld sailor. On rainy days you can find it atthe tidal pools on the beach(over the bridge you repaired). During the dayWinter, it's not raining, so it won't appear unless you use oneRain totem. He will not sell the pendant unless your farm is upgraded and you have 10 hearts with a qualified villager.

After the mermaid pendant is accepted, this will also happencalendarwill have a mermaid pendant icon on the wedding day.

The wedding

The weather icon is replaced by a heart on the wedding day.

The wedding ceremony takes place in the morning, 3 days after you propose. That is, if you propose on Monday the 1st, the wedding video will take place as soon as you wake up on Thursday the 4th. Once the ceremony is complete, you and your partner will appear at the farmhouse on 6 The day will proceed as usual when you are married. The friendship with your partner can now reach 14 hearts, but drops by 20 points per day if there is no contact between the two of you.

The wedding ceremony will not take place on a day when another event is taking place in the town square. In such cases, the wedding is postponed until there is a day without such an event.

On the wedding day, the weather icon that appears between the date and time is replaced by a heart. The weather will always be sunny that day, regardless of the weather forecast the day before.

Married life

When a villager gets married, they move to the cityfarm. They will have a maximum of 14 hearts instead of 10 and if you keep them happy they will helpthe farm. A happy husband can make breakfast, feed animals, mend fences or provide waterCrops. They change from time to timethe wallpaperofcarpetingvanFarm. Interacting with your partner when no dialogue is available will result in a hug.

It is also possible to havechildrenunder certain circ*mstances.

If you are married, the twice-per-week gift limit is eliminated, but the once-per-day limit still applies.

Husband chores

  • Irrigation of all crops on the farm (i.espring,summer, Inval).
  • Feed everyoneanimals.
  • Drainagedog CatCheers.
  • Repair brokenfence.
  • To give gifts, inclbreakfast and dinner dishes. (If the inventory is full, the item will not be received.)

Stardrop

At 12.5 hearts (3125friendshippoints), there is a random chance to get oneStardropfrom your partner, as a sign of their love. INmultiple playersIn a game where two players marry each other, the Stardrop appears as a gift in a small purple box next to each player's bed when he wakes up in the morning.

Spouses rooms

Once married, the player's partner will immediately create a unique room insideFarm, located to the right of the bedroom. note thatEmily's parrot will not be visible to anyone in themultiple playerswho did not complete his 4 heart event.

Husband outside the region

In addition to their room in the house, each spouse has a unique space in the backfarm.

Samdoing skateboard tricks on a halfpipe.

Maruworks on a gadget.

Abigaïlplays his flute.

Leaworking on a sculpture.

Sebastianworks on his bike.

Alexlifts weights.

Cent,Harvey, InElliottwill read a book in a potted plant garden.

Emilymeditating in a crystal garden.

Haleytaking pictures between two potted palms.

Shanestands by her chicken coop with her chicken, Charlie, holding him.

Exhaustion

Kissing your partner will disappearexhaustionfrom your energy bar. This only works for the first kiss of the day when a heart appears above your head.

messy house

If an object blocks your partner's path in the farm, they'll say, "You could have cleaned something up here while I was away... It's not very nice to have to wade through a pile of junk after a hard day's work." "

If your partner can't get to the kitchen, he or she will say, "You have a lot of stuff in the kitchen... I guess you're not getting any food tonight."

If there are monsters in there, like slime, they'll ask, "Um... Honey? Why are there monsters in the house?"

Jealousy

If you give a gift to one of the other suitors while you are already married, there is a chance that your partner will become jealous. This only happens if the villager receiving the gift has already accepted a bouquet from you and is of the same gender as your partner -dv.If you married a bachelor, this only happens if you give a gift to another bachelor. It doesn't matter if the gift is nice or not, the only gift you can safely give is a birthday gift. (Please note that delivery orders do not count as gifts.) The chance of your partner becoming jealous is between 20 and 40%, depending on the dailyheld. If your partner gets jealous, you will be fined 30 friendship points, and the next time you talk to your partner, he or she will give an angry message about your gift.[1]

Children

Main article:Children

You can only have children once you upgrade the farm for the second time, the nursery adds. When you go to bed at night, your partner may randomly ask if you want/adopt a child. You can answer "yes" or "not now." Same-sex couples will adopt children, and opposite-sex couples will have biological children.

Parting

Players can visitThe Mayor's Housewhere a small book inside allows them to divorce their husband. A divorce costs moneyMarriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (40)50.000 gr. After filing for divorce, players have the option to cancel before the end of the day (until 12:00 noon)Lewis'the house is closing). If they don't cancel, their partner's room, their partner's room, and the unique outdoor area will be gone the next morning and their friendship level will return to 0 hearts. Below their name it says "(ex)".

After the divorce, the spouse moves back to his old hometown and will have negative interactions with the player, citing the failure of his marriage. They also do not receive gifts from the player. (Note that the player can still enter the ex-spouse's bedroom or home as if the player had two friendship hearts with the ex-spouse.) Any children from the marriage will live onfarm. Any items the player placed in the ex's room are collected and placed in a roomchestthe day after the divorce.

Players can visitHexenhutin the late game where they will find a shrine that can erase all memories of past spouses for an offeringMarriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (41)30.000 gr(this will also dryCrobus' memory if he is a former roommate). Afterwards, all ex-spouses will no longer remember the previous marriage, allowing players to date and remarry if they wish.

Children from marriage can also be 'turned into doves'Hexenhutin exchange for onePrismatic shearing. This permanently removes these children from the game, but additional children can be obtained with another partner. (Note that if the divorce is annulled, more children can be born with the same partner.)

If the player is expecting a child and gets divorced, the child is not born/delivered.

Divorced spouses neither come to your wedding nor treat you normally during festivals.

Insects

  • Occasionally, a partner's heart rate will drop by about two hearts during the night, for reasons completely unknown.
  • A divorced spouse can have a "Help wanted" request. When the mission is completed, the partner will express gratitude before returning to an angry/hurt dialogue. Completing a search for an ex-spouse yields nothingfriendshippoints with the former spouse.

References

  1. SeNPC::tryToReceiveActiveObject()in the game code

History

  • 1,0: Introduced.
  • 1.1: AddedShaneInEmilyas marriage candidates. Added separation option. Added different outdoor areas for each spouse.
  • 1.3.27: ThatDwarfattends weddings of players who have hit rock bottomThe mines.
  • 1.4: Divorced spouses no longer attend weddings or treat their exes normally during festivals. The player's partner's jealousy has been changed to only apply to suitors who have received a bouquet. Spouse's heart meter increased from 12 to 14. Fixed bug that allowed multiple bouquets to be given to create friendship.
  • 1.4.4: Items placed in divorced spouses' rooms are now collected in a chest instead of being dropped as monster loot.
Marriage - Stardew Valley Wiki (2024)

FAQs

What are the benefits of getting married in Stardew Valley? ›

A happy spouse might make breakfast, feed animals, repair fences or water crops. They occasionally change the wallpaper or flooring of the Farmhouse. Interacting with your spouse when no dialogue is available will result in an embrace. It is also possible to have children under certain circ*mstances.

How do you marry someone in Stardew Valley? ›

You should see the Old Mariner sitting in on the northern side of the secret Beach area. Speak with him to purchase the pendant for 5000g. Give it to the person you wish to marry, and in a few days, the ceremony will happen! In Winter, the Old Mariner will only appear if you use a Rain Totem.

Who gets married the most in Stardew? ›

Abigail may be the most popular marriage candidate, and for some pretty obvious reasons. She's every high-school dork's dream girl. Abigail is a quirky, goth, gamer-girl who's strong and adventurous. She wants to explore the mines, fight monsters, and have a real adventure.

Who is the easiest man to marry in Stardew Valley? ›

For the men I'd say Shane and Harvey are the easiest, both of their favorites can be bought from Gus and they're generally in one spot throughout the week unless they got something special going on.

Is Alex a good person to marry in Stardew Valley? ›

There are twelve eligible bachelors and bachelorettes in Stardew Valley, one of them being the jock-type Alex. Although he comes off to be a one-to-one recreation of the jock that bullied you in high school, Alex is a compassionate and vulnerable marriage candidate in Stardew Valley.

What happens when you give a bouquet in Stardew Valley while married? ›

Yes, you can date someone while married. If that person is the same gender as your spouse, when you give a gift to that person, your spouse will get jealous. Yes, you will see the bouquet forever, but the person will be listed as single because you are otherwise occupied officially.

Who is the best bachelor in Stardew Valley? ›

Without a doubt, Sebastian is the best bachelor in Stardew Valley. After marrying Sebastian, he makes Coffee sometimes for the player in the mornings. He sets up a display area for his motorcycle in the space outdoors, where he can be seen working on it every so often.

How do you have a baby in Stardew Valley? ›

You must be married for 7 days, have a good relationship with your spouse, and have the second Farmhouse upgrade to have kids. If you're in a same-gender marriage, your character will adopt children, but the process works the same. Children have four growth stages, and they do not grow past the toddler stage (stage 4).

Do spouses get jealous in Stardew Valley? ›

It is possible to get jealous dialog from your spouse, after giving a gift to another marriage candidate, if the candidate is the same gender as your spouse, and if you are already at 8 hearts with that candidate.

Can you marry your roommate in Stardew Valley? ›

He can receive gifts, and while he cannot marry the player, he can become a roommate.

When should you get married in Stardew Valley? ›

The wedding ceremony takes place in the morning, 3 days after you propose. That is, if you propose on Monday the 1st, the marriage cutscene will take place as soon as you wake up on Thursday the 4th.

Who is the most romanced character in Stardew Valley? ›

  • 6 Leah Is A Good Balance Of Nice Personality And Good Character Development. ...
  • 5 Maru Is Smart And Passionate. ...
  • 4 Emily's Zest For Life Is Contagious. ...
  • 3 Harvey Is A Charming And Sweet Husband. ...
  • 2 Sebastian Is Hard To Befriend But Warms Up To The Player. ...
  • 1 Abigail Is Stardew Valley's Most Popular Spouse.
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What does Leah do when you marry her? ›

Most of the time she stays in the house, or goes to work on her sculpture behind the house or goes for a stroll in the woods.

Can you have multiple spouses in Stardew Valley? ›

Streamer Yinny has posted quite a lot of modded Stardew Valley videos (many of which involve sexual dialogue mods so do beware the links) and last year undertook the challenge of simultaneously marrying 23 people in Stardew Valley. She achieved that feat with Free Love, a mod which allows you to have multiple spouses.

Should I marry Harvey Stardew Valley? ›

Harvey is the sweetest man alive and makes an incredible in-game spouse. There's no contest here imho. Harvey never complains about helping out around the farm, offers to give you massages after a hard day's work, frequently fixes you breakfast (even on his own birthday!!!)

Can you break up with someone in Stardew Valley? ›

If users have entered into a relationship and want to end it, they need to give their partner a wilted bouquet. It is similar to the way how players can begin a relationship, where they have to give a bouquet to their significant other.

Can you marry the wizard in Stardew Valley? ›

Thanks to Stardew Valley Expanded, players can live out their dreams of marrying the Wizard and learn a little more about what brought him to the valley in the first place.

Can you marry Krobus in Stardew Valley? ›

He can receive gifts, and while he cannot marry the player, he can become a roommate.

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