VanAriana Grande in Pete DavidsonUnpleasantJustin Bieber en Hailey Baldwin- and nowNick Jonas Priyanka Chopra- It seems that a new obligation has been reported in celebrities every day in the news.Although there is no way to know the details of a person's relationship, and everyone is entitled to the relationship that makes them happy, the population on the internet does not prevent everything that they are for how long they are together.Is there such a thing as getting married too young or too early?Since this wedding season is nothing less than moved, we have asked the experts what to know if you need to know if you should know if you are considering putting a ring on it.
It's not like the old days.
"The marriage today has changed so much since 1960 when half of all women married after 20 years," says Stephanie Coontz, Director of Research and Public Education in the Council ofModern families."Young women had no access to so many jobs and they were more dependent on men in support. Nowadays the marriage requires a lot more work and negotiations. Men and women are now more flexible in their gender roles than their grandparents. Gender roles change so much in marriage that youngGetting married is quite a risk, especially when it is in your education. "
Education must be your first priority.
"It is important to put an end to the basic levels of training: high school, business or a university exam," says Bradford Wilcox, director ofNational Marriage Projectat the University of Virginia."I think having experience with full employment is also important to have a financial basis for marriage there."
You have to imagine your future together.
"One of the biggest worries is the issue of maturity," says Wilcox."Do young people have the opportunity to make a lifelong decision when it comes to a future spouse, and also by navigating the inevitable challenges of life? And look, you have to find out if your partner has virtues with regard toTheir loyalty, faith and work ethic that will implement financial challenges and raise children together. Be aware of whether your potential spouse will be a good parent and a good friend the course of your life. "
There is a higher risk of divorce if you marry young.
"If you are a woman until you reach 24 or 25, your risk of divorce is much higher than if you wait to get a marriage up to 24 years or older," says Coontz."In fact, every year you decide that you are postponing marriage, immediately in your early 1930s, your risk of divorce. There are always exceptions on average, but it is so important that women and men end their university educationAnd know each other for a long time given the dynamics of today's wedding. "
The support of your friends and family is crucial.
"It is important to have support from family and friends," says Wilcox."Many young adults nowadays do not necessarily think of input from their family members, but if you look at what goes into a successful marriage in the life cycle, couples, couples are couples, there are parents and in faces who support their marriage, rather to Atlik. They have more perspective on your relationship than you because they are not an immediate part of it. "
Your partner must support your goals.
"Don't confuse the desire with love," says Coontz."Friendship, at a deeper level, is about knowing each other's interests and sharing these interests; not only having fun together. Women are often higher income than their men and you have to make sure you choose a man who won 'me' IIs threatened by it. "
The wedding is only the first step.
"Your wedding day will not be the biggest day of your life," says Coontz."It is part of a journey that you and your partner have to complete together where you both invest in your own education and career, so that you can get a life that is a supplement to the relationship, not life that depends on the relationship”
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